♥ is...

Love is an emotions or desire towards a person or object.
Love is when you go shopping or having a meal and you subconsciously think of that person.
Love is when you willing to let him/her go for him to find a happiness that you think you can't give.
Love has no right or wrong. It's only the timing matters.
How would you explain love?



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♥ is...

Men don't bitch. Women are bitches

I read about the differences of guys and girls from Vanilla Whites.

I think that girls are more dramatic and more whiny. Yes, I can be dramatic and whiny too that's why i said girls are more dramatic and whiny than guys.

Quoting from Vanilla Whites,

Girls gossip behind your back and try to gloss things over ie. 'OMG, that must be like.. the most gorgeous hairstyle EVERRR!' when you're spotted with a lion mane of a disaster, whereas I think guys are much more honest and much less pretentious! They are more genuine in their friendship.

Well, I'm not saying all guys are genuine or all girls are hypocrite.

Just majority :)

It's not about quantity but about quality :)

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Men don't bitch. Women are bitches

What's your definition of falling in love?

“If you are going to fall in love with me, it’s only fair that you know what you are falling in love with. You are falling in love with my insecurities, and my obsession with trying to figure out what everyone thinks of me. You are falling in love with my immaturity, my constant need to feel loved and appreciated, my overactive tear ducts, my internet obsession. You fall in love with my troubled past, and my hopes and dreams, and how I’m a hopeless romantic at heart. If you fall in love with me, you fall in love with my self-hate and all my imperfections and my perception that nobody could ever love me.
But, you are also falling in love with the way my eyes will smile when I’m with you, the way I’ll text you in the mornings just telling you I hope you have a great day. You’re falling in love with the occasionally humorous and/or thought-provoking things I say, and the way I blush when people ask me about you. But to me, the most important thing will be that you are falling in love with me, despite me thinking that it is impossible.” !-- AddToAny Share/Save BEGIN -->

What's your definition of falling in love?

Life is ironic

Three words. Three simple words.

I am sorry.

How many of us can actually said it and mean it?

It's easy to say it to friends or close friends.

But to family or other half?

It is not easy ey?

Perhaps sometimes saying these three words can change a situation.

Learn to say it. and mean it.

In order to receive back something, you gotto learn to give it first without expectation.

:)

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Life is ironic

9 Things. 9 loves. 9 me.

9 things that make me happy in life. Inspired by Samantha

1. Shopping

Yes. Call me materialistic. Superficial. But I always believe retail therapy is the best when you need a little destress or pick me up :) Trust me. When you indulge yourself, you will feel much better after that.


2. My girls + my boys .

My girlies. My bimbos. :)

My two side kick. Hehe :) Alvin & RenJiun. :) Despite we don't talk everyday or see each other *I.anti.social* Lol, but your friendship mean alot to me :)

Leave the best for last. :) Jassy & Yinz. They seen me at my worst side. Crying like a baby. Cursing like a mad woman. Okay not a good thing to write it out on blog. But yeh, got my drift, they mean the world to me.


3. Food.

I'm a glutton. I love food. I contradict myself sometimes when it comes to food. But which girl doesnt? We love food but we are afraid of the excess weight gain. Hence, my love for Jap Food :) I love sashimi; salmon, tuna, white fish. :) Cheer me up with food and I will give you my million dollars smile ;)

And bubble tea or Green Tea Frappe with added java chip from Starbucks :)
The two conderfirm perk me up drinks! :)




4. Source of communication

Iphone 3GS :) My source of entertainment/communication :)



4. Books and knowledge.

I'm a nerd. Sue me. But seriously I love reading. From fictions to chic lits to self-help. Anything that caught my eyes and if it's interesting I will read it :) I have a shelf full with books. :) *happy*

Quote from jas "Wah u so nerdy want ah" ._____. Lol

My dad used to say this to me, "if you spend this much time on your textbooks than onr u other books, I think you would have scored better" (-.-) Lol

I prefer having a cup of coffee and a book in my hand anytime :)

Currently reading this :)



5. Meaningful quotes/ inspirations

There are too many quotes/inspirations but I have chosen a few that for now it's my favourites :)


How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours. -Wayne Dyer


The most crucial ingredient in any relationship is not what you say or do, but who you are. -Unknown


When we walk through the storm, we might forget that we have faith. Remember, faith is in you!

A best friend stays with u through the mistakes and, in the right circumstance, later laughs with u about them.





6. Photography

I think most people would associate photography with taking beautiful pictures of sceneries. My version of photography would be playing with applications like above :D

Of cos, I do appreciate sceneric pictures and whom I with :)


7. Beach.

I love being near the beach. I love visiting the beach whenever I need time to think. There's something about the sea breeze that can calm me down :)
I think I want to stay nearby the beach one day :)


8. Perfumes.

I love perfumes. When I was in high school and college, I used to keep all the finished bottles of perfume on a shelf in my room. But since I went to Melbourne and came back from Melbourne, I realized my mum threw those empty bottles away T____T And I left some perfumes in Melbourne. :/

Current addictions now are DKNY and Gucci Flora :)

Okay btw, I suck in taking pictures of objects, hence the not so nice pictures of the perfumes.



9. Small little gestures/thoughts that counts.

Alot of people don't get it. Don't get the purpose of "it's the small thoughts or gestures that counts". Hmm, could it be because of our environment now? Or perhaps the surrounding we are in. Yes, girls and guys like material things. Admit it. Everyone loves material things. But it's sometimes a simple text messages from an old friend or best friend or whoever can cheer me up :)

So yes, small little things do matter to me. :)

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9 Things. 9 loves. 9 me.

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

This is why men and women are different.

And this is why they said,

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus..

:)

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Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

And so it says..

Indeed :)

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And so it says..

Inspiration.

Inspirations from Thia Random pictures of my room. I have problem of keeping my room very neat despite that I'm a clean freak Everytime I packed and arrange it neatly, it will somehow back to the messy state. I blame the size of the room and table *in denial period*LoL

One part of my desk:

Dead and dried up roses.

Burberry perfume & Versace perfume.

Water bottle(S) to keep me hydrated throught the day.

Hand sanitizers, face cream, BB cream.

Gums & sweets

Comb/brush.

Cup holding my stationeries (scissorts, pens, markets, rulers etc etc).

DVD and my accesories on top on the DVD.

Calculators and house keys.

Magazines, notebooks and notes.

Ipod classic and some flyers underneath.

Another part of my desk: Laptop with IE showing Thia's blog that inspired me to do this post. File with notes. Mouse, HDD. Printer with notes, Coles catalogue, notebooks on top on the printer.
Board: Birthday cards, farewell cards, christmas cards from the loved ones :) Rental payment methods form . LoL. Inspirations quotes from my ex housemate :) Friendship necklace hanging :) Promoters tags. LoL

Shelf: Tissue box. More notes and notes :(
Cupboard that i transform into dressing table: More perfumes and lotions. Makeup bag. Facial products bag. My Logitech Pink speaker with Ipod nano on it :)
On the floor:
Ugly yellow plastic bag containing more notes, books and handbook.
Chair: Half of my bags. *my bags deserve a spot on the chair* :)

Big pink poney. Two containers of clothes *becasue my wardrobe is too small* T_________T
My shopping goods that I'm too lazy too unpacked :( My purple GHD straightener and hairdryer

Wardrobe: Messy and unorganized pjs, jeans, towels, bags, accesories.
Wardrobe:
Very-packed and tight space containing jackets, tops, dresses.

Wardrobe:
Overflowing clothes from the drawers T________________T

My trusty heater that last me through all winters :)
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Inspiration.

Independent vs dependent

You know how when we love someone, we tend to rely on them eventually. Be it lovers, friends or family. But eventually, you will learnt not to rely on you, him,her or anyone. Be succesful in my own way. Be independent in my own way. Be the bubbly one in my own way. From now onwards, I know that whatever I want in life be it from the simplest things, I have to achieve it in my own way. Because no one can be relied on. Inspired by Cheri !-- AddToAny Share/Save BEGIN -->

Independent vs dependent

Words of wisdom

Don’t we all try too hard sometimes?

To please. To achieve. To love.

And when we do, two things can happen:

 a) We fall apart.

              OR

b) We fall perfectly into place. Inspired by ShengMae

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Words of wisdom

Some people are just too funny for words

Paraphrase of the whole meaning. But MelissaSin's latest post reflect how I feel. Maybe its a different thing and different situation. But the words. The meaning. Her words reflect how i feel. just to be absent from all the terrible things. just to enjoy the moment with a little warmth and content. just to forget about my appearance... the ugliness is back to square one. lost. Terrible things happened. i can't really understand how some ppl actually put the blame all on you, and tell you how bad the situation is, and eventually wants to you to come up with a solution. Facts of you thinking that we are the selfish person. You have no rights to be who you are what you did. You have no rights to speak to us and whats more US becoming the blame and finding solutions. YOU GOT TO BE JOKING RIGHT. waitttt.... you are NOT joking. really pathetic... really... you are playing fire with fire. well, i hope those ppl don't get burn. Thank you for your time.. !-- AddToAny Share/Save BEGIN -->

Some people are just too funny for words

What's your story?

Everyone has their side of story, What's yours ?
Read this *click* Some of it might represent how you feel and some might represent how you think someone might feel. And i think it is important for everyone to let it out once awile :) Dont let anyone facade fools you into believing anything .. :) !-- AddToAny Share/Save BEGIN -->

What's your story?

The heart has a reason not knowing

"All I can say is expectations will only lead to disappointment. So I just couldn’t give shit anymore. Some ppl are just so wtf. (I can imagine Kat’s expression when she reads this. Yea. And some ppl are really just so wtf.)" "Oh btw assumption is the mother of all fuck ups. I just can’t stand ppl who could see only a certain small angle then assume things and they act as if they get the whole picture. Go get a life!" Above was quotes from Anne. It actually stated what i really felt. Everything. Why do some people just assume? Why do some people think they are above us? Why do some people thinks that they are right all the time? Hiding behind your own mask is the way to protect yourself. The heart has a reason not knowing !-- AddToAny Share/Save BEGIN -->

The heart has a reason not knowing

Tagged

Taking a break from assignment.
TAGGED BY MICH

1. Do you know the way to heaven?
Uhm...... no ?

2. what is your dream career?
Having my own restaurant/cafe :) and siu lai lai (housewife) :P hahah.. I foresee Anne & Yinz rolling their eyes . lol

3. if you were granted a ability, what will it be?
 the ability to read minds.. (same as Mich)

4. where is the place that you want to go the most?
Paris and Japan :)

5. if you can have 1 dream to come true, what would it be?
to able to support my parents financially already. I dont want to burden them so much :(

6. what do you like in your other half?
 TO be someone that is ambitious and knows what he wants in his life (has plans for his future) and also mature :)

7. what are you afraid to lose the most now?
those that i cherish around me ( friends, my girls, my parents, my bro bro)

 8. if you win $1 million, what would you do?
Take half of it and treat my parents for a holiday :) and save quarter of it. Another quarter invest it :)

9. if you meet someone that you love, would you confess to him/her?
it depends on the situation

10. list out 3 good points of the person who tagged you.
Michelle : fashionable, sweet, sociable

11. what are the requirements that you wish from your other half?
 be who he is and accept me for who i am :)

12. which type of person do you hate the most?
 liars and those that hurt my friends and fickle minded people

13. what is your ambition?
 able to support myself financially and support my parents as well :)

14. Confess your sins for today.
 I ate unhealthy food :( and i ordered Thomas Sabo charm bracelet online this morning :(

15. what do you think is the most important thing in your life?
 to get the hell out of uni and start working!

16. are you a shopaholic or not?
 uhm..... no la where got *denying* haha

 17. state one of your desire.
To lose weight so Sam wont called me FAT anymore :( * i hate you Sam* The more realistic ones is to able to graduate on time :(

18. if you have a chance, which part of your character you would like to change?
 Able to behave more independently :) and more mature! :P

 19. whats the last shocking thing you’ve seen or heard?
 uhm..... i cant tell it here

20. what do you need answers to?
 the truth about 'it'. Because sometimes when there's too many stories about the one thing, it tend to make u confused on which is the truth. :(

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Tagged

Everything happens for a reason

I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they go right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart, so that better things can fall together. -Marilyn Monroe Read this in Melissa's blog !-- AddToAny Share/Save BEGIN -->

Everything happens for a reason

"Why are you trying so hard to fit in when you are born to stand out?" !-- AddToAny Share/Save BEGIN -->

Because of all the difficulties, I finally understand that the most beautiful flower is already blooming for me !-- AddToAny Share/Save BEGIN -->

What happens when you accidentally found out something you wish you didn't know. And so its true when one says, Some things are better left unsaid or unknown. I wish I practice that concept into my life. !-- AddToAny Share/Save BEGIN -->

Got tagged by Michelle Because I'm so bored, i will do this tag anyway :) 1. If I was the opposite gender, what would my party clothes be like? Jack sparrow... 2. At 10am this morning, I was... Sleeping (because I watched Vacany until 6ish am) 3. At 10pm tonight, I will be.. studying (hopefully) 4. Who should be the next Malaysian Prime Minister? err.. i got no idea 5. If my spouse told me to do without sex for a year, I would.. laugh... hahaha 6. If i was a piece of a car, I would be the... door... 7. If i was told one day that i would have to give up either 1) anything chocolate or 2). ever seeing the beach again, for the rest of my life, which one will i give up? I will give up chocolate ... 8. Singapore is good for... shopping ... 9. If i could only say 3 words before i die, what would those last words be? I wana live... :P 10. Who would i like to be left on a deserted island with? my girlfriends 11. Die by drowning or by fire? Err.. neither... 12. What is one single thing would you buy with your last RM9.95? err..... it depends on the situation? 13. If i opened a night club, what would i call it? Saphire... :P 14. Don't cheat: what's "bulbous"? what's that ???!?? 15. i think my ass is.. big... :( Back to studying... My first paper is this friday! wish me luck! :) Then, shopping time with the shopaholic, Serene and PeiSze :D !-- AddToAny Share/Save BEGIN -->

"Certainly there are alot of things in life that money wont buy, but it's very funny-have you ever tried to buy them without money?" - Ogden Nash !-- AddToAny Share/Save BEGIN -->