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Nothing hurts more than realising he meant everything to you, but you meant nothing to him Love is something like the process of building a building. You try to build the foundation as you trottle along the line of a relationship. First, there must be an architectural plan to guide it. A building cannot be built without knowing when it is finally done, thus the need for a final picture. Likewise in a relationship, there must be a mutual goal to look forward to. Secondly, there must be the ground digging, laying out the structure and bricks, all the dynamism involved when it comes to building something. In a relationship, that's linked to the process of sharing your thoughts, setting ground rules, and getting to know each better. Then once the foundation of the building is built, there's the process of painting the building and furnishing it. Like a building, a relationships needs to be able to flourish and brilliantly flourish through deeds of kindness, materiality, and thoughtfulness. Then after a while, a building will start to decay. The paint will be peeling off and there will signs of ageing apparent throughout it. A relationships will start to have problems and the individuals involved in it will start to see only the bad in the other and soon will drift apart. Feelings will be lost and hearts will be broken. But with a building, there's always a chance of revival. Soon, someone will notice the rotting building and effort will be done to restore it to its former glory. In a relationship, there's a slight chance one party will try to mend things and there's a chance things will be better. If both parties are willing to genuinely cooperate, the chances of things working out is high. Truly, chances are nothing can ever be truly what it is before, building and relationship both. But sometimes the patches of change will evolve into something better, better than before. !-- AddToAny Share/Save BEGIN -->